My Own Utopian Experiment #16: Recognize and Savor the fact that your dreams came true.
This is my 3rd gratitude practice since the first day of the blog. First one was about people and second one was everything else we have.
https://invitedtoshare.com/gratitude-practice-together-1-people/
https://invitedtoshare.com/gratitude-practice-together-2-everything-else-we-have/
I would like to start with one of my mottos.
Everything you have right now were your previous dreams.
It is so true. When we get used to things, we appreciate less. That’s why gratitude practice is important to recognize and appreciate things in our lives. These are the things I have which were my previous dream.
My ordinary days seem mundane and repetitive but that means I am missing the essence. In a big picture, I achieved many of my dreams. I am living the exact life I wished to live.
Please do it with me. I can’t possibly write everything here but the list does not need to be perfect. At the end of your list, you will realize more that you achieved your dreams more than you feel. Savor it daily as much as you can. Let’s not miss the essence of our perfect ordinary days. Sending my love as always!
- College Graduation
This may surprise some but I had my darkest time back then. I was dealing with sickness in family. I was struggling financially, mentally, emotionally and physically. I had breaks in and out of the college. But I did what I could do and managed to graduate. I am so grateful that I did that to myself. Education was the best investment I made so far. After all, the ordeal and the struggle were worthwhile.
- A Few Good People During College.
I met a few good people thru college. Again, I was dealing with a lot back then. Their friendships meant so much. I still contact with some despite of long distances with different lifestyles. Regardless of where they are including the ones lost contact, I am grateful that we met back then with all positive impacts to each other. We studied and hung out together. We shared our future dreams. We grew together and sometimes grieved together. I am also grateful that we all graduated. Without them, I would have fewer good memories.
- Career Change
I briefly shared my thoughts on career change. https://invitedtoshare.com/category/career/
I am grateful that I had an opportunity to make this transition successful. Even though it was tough, I really think it was worthwhile. I am in a better spot because of it. The best part is that I have no regret of not trying.
- Having My Own Family and Being a Mom
I did not like dating when I was single. I was never desperate enough to look for someone. I was even ok with not getting married. In a good term, I was self-sufficient and busy with my own life. In a bad term, I was somewhat short-sighted. When I look back, the universe was helping me. I do not know what I would do without my family now. My life would feel totally differently. I certainly did not become a mom either. I am grateful to have my own family.
- Supportive Family
I am a full-time working mom. I admit I sometimes complain about this, not having enough time for anything. Although it gets easier on certain aspects, it is hard overall. At least, it is not easy. When I really think about this, I would not be able to pursue a career without their help and understanding. My hubby helps when asked almost always. My child is a good kid which helps me tremendously.
- My Little Perfect House
I bought my house when I was single. I did not plan to raise a family here but happened. I used to plan to move a few times. Each time I try, something will happen. I did not like it back then but I love it now. Again, the universe was helping me to stay here. My little one has school mates in walking distance to play outside. We have two playgrounds in walking distance along with an outdoor pool. Great schools. Convenient locations for shopping and fun. It works great with our busy lifestyles with a child. It is in a busy suburb but enough nature to enjoy birds and little creatures. A bunch of trees and nearby parks. Nice distance to our offices.
- People Grow and Getting Old Together
I witness my child grow and I grow as a mom as well. We grow together. I am someone who do not think about age too much. I have friends much younger and much older. Some of them are my mom’s age. I do not care. We do not pick the time to be born. Recently, I realize and love the idea growing old together. This means we are sharing time and life together. I appreciate people grow and get old together with me. I plan to enjoy the process and do it gracefully. I really hope we get to know each other more and better.
- My health and working body
I appreciate my working body. When I am down, I remind myself that I can walk, talk and drive freely. That’s an advantage since not everyone has it. All the things that I do daily are miracle in that sense. After this many years, my body continue to work. My health has not been the best this year but I take it as a reminder to take care of my body. I am grateful.